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Getting my run on.

Now that the holidays are over, the new year has begun and the routines are starting to fall back into place, it’s time to focus again.  I feel like the past year has been about me giving to other people.  There was the pregnancy and literally giving myself to another person.  Then there was newborn care, parenting three small children, nursing my husband through another illness and surgery and recovery, and the list goes on.  What I did not do very well last year was care for myself.  I had 2 haircuts in the entirety of 2010.  One was in January, the other was December 30th.  I bought myself a couple new pieces of clothing all year.  I had zero massages.  I had a couple nights out with friends but not enough.  I had very few date nights with my husband which is something we both desperately need to stay connected.  Overall, I did very little for myself.  I took very little time to just do something for me.  This carried over into my health as well.  After the initial post baby weight loss, my weight basically plateaued the rest of the year.  Low 160′s is seemingly where my body would like to be right now.

But 2011 is a new year and I’m unofficially dubbing it the Year of Me.  I’m going to take time for me this year.  I’ve already purchased myself two new pair of jeans (really, really needed after 1 pair sprouted a giant hole in the knee last week!) and used a Christmas gift card for two other new items of clothing.  I have a gift card (from my truly awesome sister) for a massage but I’m going to have to complete another challenge before I’ll let myself use it.  Kris and I have some gift cards from Christmas to go on some date nights.  We must make time for these.  But I’m also going to make time for my health too.

New Year Challenge ending Friday February 4th:  Tuesday and Thursday nights are work out nights for me when Kris gets home from work.  If I’m tired or if there are house chores to be done, well, too bad.  I’m worth it.  I’m also going to get a workout in on Saturday and Sunday, even if it’s a short one due to being busy.  I’m worth it.  I’m also going to watch my eating.  I’m back to a schedule now with work and that should help to make it easier.  I just have to remember that I’m worth it.  That’s it.  Just make time for me to work out 4 times a week.  It’s achievable.

Annika asked me last week if I was pregnant again.  When I told her no she asked why my belly is big again then.  There is nothing like the truth spoken by a child.

So, my goal for this year, beyond taking time for myself both for my health and fitness and for my mental sanity (time to myself – massages – more than 2 haircuts!) and for my marriage is to finally hit my goal weight of 135 pounds.  I’m giving myself the entire year to go from 164.8 (my weight this morning) to 135.  This is achievable and realistic and Kris is on board with this and will no doubt support me as best he can.

Now it’s up to me.

To take care of me.

1 Comment

  1. by Jen K, on January 6 2011 @ 7:11 am

     

    Oh I hear you!!! I only had one haircut last year and that was in May. Why do we not take care of ourselves!??!

    I like the Year of You. Erm, for me I guess that is the year of Kristina?? ;)

    You have my support!
    Jen

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